Budgets, Baby Gates, and Boundaries

Budgets, Baby Gates, and Boundaries

When our youngest learned to crawl, once he got the hang of it- he just took off. I used to be able to sit him on the floor with a few toys around him and check in on him every few minutes while I got things done around the house. I clearly remember the day when I set him down, got something out of the fridge, turned around, and he was gone.

 He was at the top of the stairs and I caught him just in time. Very soon after that, the baby gates went up.

With the baby gates up, I could contain him to the main floor of the house and I didn’t have to worry about not having my eye on him every second. With boundaries, there is peace. With boundaries, Luke is free to explore his world without falling down the stairs and getting hurt.

As I was grocery shopping, I was thinking about how the boundaries of the budget give this same peace. Before we started budgeting, I always felt guilty about grocery shopping. I know we need to eat food, but did I spend too much? Even if a steak was on a good sale, should I have opted for something cheaper instead?

Now, with a budget, I have a set amount to spend. Within that amount, I have freedom to splurge a little on special occasions and cut back in other areas, as long as I meet by budget by the end of the month. With my husband, there are less fights about money because we both know our spending limits. Boundaries give peace, and freedom.

And so it is with our wise Heavenly Father. He gives us the 10 commandments and the teachings of the Church – not to restrict us, but to give us freedom. I put up a gate so Luke doesn’t fall down the stairs. God give us rules and boundaries so we don’t fall from grace. And with a “morality budget”, if you will, we are guided to not overspend on earthly desires so we don’t suffer the consequences later.

Boundaries give freedom through security. This is very true for our children as well as we parent them. Not only through our own set of parenting rules, but through handing down the doctrine of faith as well. God is a parent who loves us, and his rules are there to protect us; to give us freedom and peace. If we as parents love our children, we will set up boundaries to do the same and guide them to their true happiness: heaven.

“For freedom Christ set us free; so stand firm and do not submit again to the yoke of slavery.  . . For you were called for freedom. But do not use this freedom as an opportunity for the flesh; rather, serve one another through love.”Galatians 5:1;13

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